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Blessed assurance Jesus is mine!

This moment marks three years ago that Jesus came for my daddy.  As I have been remembering him and his last day, I am moved to share from my heart the hope that is within me!

Did you know there is a such a thing as "actively dying"?  I didn't.  Until I was told it was happening to my precious mother.  Some eight years later, it was my dear daddy's turn. Thankfully, in the midst of their dying, there was no doubt Jesus was coming for them and they would spend eternity in His presence.  As sad as it was for us to be losing them, we had and still have confidence and assurance that once they died, they were in that very instant with Jesus.  What a comfort.  But, let me be perfectly clear here. I didn't tell myself this to make their dying easier to handle. I didn't believe this because they did or because some preacher or Sunday School teacher told me so.  Sure, it started out that way but then my heart starting wanting my own personal relationship with Jesus.  Their Jesus became my Jesus.  The Bible they read to me became the very words of God spoken to me. The hope within me was my own born from my own personal relationship with Jesus.

As a child, I remember my daddy reading Revelation 21-22 to me.  I'm not sure how many times he read it to me, but I remember vividly the impact the description of the new heavens and the new earth had on me.  My heart was filled with excitement, anticipation and yes, even longing.  Certainly no fear of death. As wonderful as my childhood was, being with Jesus in the place described could not be topped!  I was told Jesus would never leave or forsake me, that He was in heaven even then/now preparing a place just for me, and that absent from this body (death), present with the Lord.  These truths (and more) from God's Word were expressions of a love even greater than the love my parents had for me and I wanted to know this Jesus as they knew Jesus.  So, in Sunday School, when Revelation 3:20 was shared with me and later when my daddy would explain further, kneel and pray with me and ask me if I would open the door of my heart to Jesus my answer was "yes"!  Jesus was my savior.  He was mine and I was His.  Forever.

"Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine!
Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine!
Heir of salvation, purchase of God,
Born of His Spirit, washed in His blood."
Blessed Assurance by Frances J. Crosby 

Losing my momma was so hard but God in His graciousness gave us 8 more years with daddy. But, this strong, independent man from the "great generation" found himself a widow, legally blind, battling cancer,  multiple other physical conditions, and dependent upon his children and other precious caregivers.  Yet, his faith in Jesus gave him a grit and joy for life that amazed us all (Dear Daddy). Once again, I found/find myself wanting what I saw him having with Jesus. On his last day of his life here on earth, laying in a nursing home bed, struggling and unresponsive, I read God's Word over him, including Revelation 21-22!  Waiting for Jesus to come, I also played him his favorite hymn - "It is well with my soul". Of course, I reflected on his life of faith but the thing that really struck me that day was the reality that all he had was Jesus and Jesus was enough.  From a human point of view, he'd suffered the loss of everything but he had gained more and more of Jesus.  Beautiful.  Learning that all we have is Jesus and Jesus is enough is one of the greatest gifts of this life and legacies we can leave.

Whatever you are facing today - joy, trials, suffering - even death, Jesus loves you and wants a very personal relationship with you.  Think about all the good relationships you have and all that involves. Things like: talking heart to heart, getting to know each other intimately, doing things together - quality time!  That's the kind of relationship Jesus wants with each one of us.  Walk with Him, talk with Him.  Know Him as intimately (through His Word) as He knows us.  If this describes your relationship with Jesus then you have blessed assurance that when you breathe your last breath you will be present with Him.  And, that while you are still here experiencing joy, trials, suffering - whatever...He will never leave you or forsake you.  Before God spoke the world into existence He thought of you, planned for you. He knit you together in your mother's womb.  He ordained your days before there was yet one of them. He sees, He knows, and He cares. Oh, glory!

On this day, I can think of no better way to honor my earthly daddy (parents) than to share the hope I have in Jesus. Thank you for letting me share.  If your heart has been moved to know more, I encourage you to take the time to read the below words from God's heart to ours.  May God capture your heart with His words and give you blessed assurance.

1 Peter 3:15

1 Thessalonians 4:13-18

2 Corinthians 5:6-8

Philippians 1:23-24

1 Corinthians 15

Revelation 21-22

It Is Well With My Soul lyrics

Deuteronomy 31:10

1 Peter 5:7

Psalm 139

Ephesians 2:10

Philippians 3:7-11


Life with daddy

My daddy is 92 years old.  Six years ago he and my mother made the huge decision to sell everything and move in with me and Tom.  Within a week of arriving, my mother was diagnosed with brain cancer.  Jesus came for her 3 months later and so she left us with daddy and her dog. Daddy had medical issues of his own and the dog - well...he has issues too but that's a whole other blog post (a picture is worth a thousand words).

I remember sitting by mother's bed when she passed away and hearing daddy commending her spirit to God.  I remember thinking then how precious those words were for someone who had just lost his bride (as he would say) of 61 years and for a man who had just lost his independence.

Daddy is from the Great Generation. He has an amazing resilience. True Grit! During the six years he's lived with us, he's undergone 40 radiation treatments, pneumonia, numerous emergency room and doctor visits for bladder infections and issues due to his radiated bladder, 30+ hyperbaric treatments, received a pace maker, diagnosed with Alzheimer's and oh yes, did I mention he is legally blind?  Okay so from 86 to 92, he also:

· Went to the VA facility in Hershey, PA for 2 weeks to learn how to use a variety of aids and tips for the visually impaired
· Took and completed a typing course for the blind provided by the Hadley School of the blind so that he could receive a talking computer
· Went to the VA facility in Birmingham, AL for 6 weeks to learn how to use the talking computer
·  Received his talking computer
· Wrote his first novel
· Finished his memoirs
·  Wrote 5 small booklets filled with short vignettes or stories that he then sent to over 100 people as Christmas presents 5 years in a row
· Wrote and distributed to anyone who wanted them several short papers on "The Ugly Truth About Abortion", "The Security of the Unborn", and "Salvation"
· Has been on numerous car and plane trips and is ready to go - anywhere!
· Stays up with the news - especially what's happening on the political front
· Has kept the faith - continues to fight the good fight

Life with daddy is filled with wonderful stories and memories but these last six years have been filled with some of his greatest achievements as we have witnessed him walking not by sight but by faith!  My daddy is a gift and God has entrusted him to Tom and I to watch over him.  I pray that Tom and I are as much a gift to him as he has been to me...to us.  Life with daddy who is legally blind, has Alzheimer's and an evil dog has it's challenges and some days are very interesting.  But look at him - what an amazing man.  What an amazing father. Thank you God for Dave Hinkle for he is a testimony of Your faithfulness and how faith in You provides hope, strength, joy, perseverance...